Am I "Siew Hei"???

I thought that I wasn't gonna do any posting/blogging today. But then hor..something happen this morning. My friend sms-ed me this morning asking me for the nail bar's address. Told her to just call them. I proceeded to just forward the business card from my phone. And that was it lor.

After lunch, I saw that she had sent me another sms saying that she couldn't read my business card. So, I went upstairs, dug out the card, and typed in the address and telephone number for her. And you know what she replied? She said that I am SO KIND TO ONLY send her the number NOW. She has already gone and finished doing her nails. I mean WTF??

This is a Nail Bar that she ALWAYS GO. No doubt that I am the one who introduced her there, but surely she should have all these numbers and contacts with her, right? Considering that she changes her driver every few months? And this is NOT the first time that she keeps sms-ing me for numbers. Why doesn't she keep them in her blardy phone if she goes to these places regularly? I don't sit down next to my phone the whole blardy day waiting for her to sms me to ask for contact numbers, right? And just because I am late in replying, sai-mm-sai like that ah? Talk like yau chi (have thorns) like that. If she really needed the number sooooooo urgently, she could call rather than sms. You say right or not???

Just so fed-up. I sms-ed her back lah. Told her that considering that she keeps changing her drivers, she should have a list of contacts on-hand what. She of course angry lah. Sms-ed me back and said "your comment was uncalled for. I chose the wrong person for help". I just sms-ed her back and told her to re-read her last sms sent to me.

So? Am I siew hei? And over-reacting? I just cannot tahan all this yau-chi comments lah.

Everytime I meet her, sure got some kind of comments one. You know my living room is quite empty up till recently where we bought a few more pieces of furniture. She came and said "ahh..now got more furniture. Chi fann yann chue (more like for people to live)". You mean before it was filled, it's for animals?? But I kept quiet and didn't say anything when she made that comment. And always saying that she doesn't like to come to my house as it is very jam lah. The roads very narrow lah etc. The drains outside my house very messed up la. My house is much smaller than hers lah. Smaller than this other lady's lah. Most times I will just comment with a "is it? Don't think so. It's about the same lah". Or my Kashmiri carpet is not as soft as hers...

And everytime. I mean everytime without fail, when the ladies in the group (this group of Asian ladies that get-together for some classes and makan-makan) talk about their age, and with me being the youngest in the group (I am 36 and the rest are from 40 onwards)...she'll say "she's the youngest lah. She not layak to join the group one". Everytime, I will just grin and keep quiet. So unlike me!!! Perhaps she likes to joke in this way. Once. Twice. Okay. But everytime is very sien leh.

I have a part-time (actually much much less than part-time) consulting job. And she would comment "You? Sure won't work long one lah". Do I look like a lazy arse?? Got work. I work lah. No work, then?? I mean sure. I enjoy going to the spas and massages and facials. But that doesn't mean that I don't also enjoy doing some proper work, right? I may not look like it. But I surely can don on safety coveralls, shoes, helmets and the works to climb distillation columns, when work demands it.

I am also a Vegetarian on both the 1st and 15th of the lunar month... and again, she'll announce to the group "yeah. she sik-chai one. She don't look it hor??" If got look for you to see...then this world, you can suss out who are the bad guys liow lah.....

This is also the same friend that didn't inform me that the place we are meeting was closed, and made me travel all the way to the place. I had to sms her to ask her where she was. Read more.

I am wondering to myself.
Am I so deprived of friends that I am keeping this friend because of that?
You tell me..... am I siew hei?? Or me being cheesed-off is justified???