Monday, May 03, 2010

Aiya.......what a bummer!

A bummer indeed!

Just got back into town from Bali.
Thought that after my Bali trip with my girlfriends, everything will be better. I've shared my feelings about the miscarriage with the girls. Talked about it to death. Cried enough. Endured the cramps and heavy bleeding.
But. But. A check-up with my obgyn this afternoon revealed that the medication did not expel all the products of conception. The embryo is gone but still lots of blood and the placenta is still in there. Bleah...
Make my mood back to pre-Bali only.
Bleah...
Going into the hospital tomorrow morning to have D&C.
*sigh*

9 comments:

Bryan and Brandon's Mama said...

Oh, they didn't perform a D&C the first time? Hang on there ok. Good luck for the D&C. It's a painless procedure with anaestetic.Take care, my dear. It's ok to grief, even for months to end.

stay-at-home mum said...

guess, it calls for another break/time off after the D&C!!

Actually I am SURPRISED they didnt do the D&C the first time round.

Dont worry too much. I am sure you will be in good hands.

mott said...

really aiya moment!

Well..take it easy..do u still need to go through a confinement again (i heard u might, but not a very strict one).

sting said...

so sorry to hear the lost... do take good care of yourself ya... hugs :-)

Mamapumpkin said...

Aiya......what a bummer! Actually 9 months is a little late without a D&C, sure need D&C one! I barely scraped thru without a D&C when I miscarried at 7.5 weeks. *sigh* I feel your sadness now. Don't worry babe. Grief all you want or not grief, if you want. Soon all will be well again.

wen said...

hope the D&C will clear every thing. nvmd lor, try again after 2 mths. sure dapat!

bp said...

u rest some more, yah, it's ok for busy NM to put up her feet to rest. i'm glad your gfs are there for u, with u in Bali. we're all ears here with our ears and shoulders, too. *HUGS*

DQ said...

Take care!

NomadicMom said...

Bryan and Brandon's mama - Will post about this in a while.

SAHM - Agree...but don't want. Post about it in a while.

Mott - Abit difficult to go through confinement when you don't feel like it. Just don't drink cold stuff and "leong" stuff I guessed.

Sting - Thanks

MamaPumpkin - I was hoping NO need too...

Wen - Yeah. Hopefully, I can move on.

bp - Feel sadder if I am at home alone and not doing anything...cause the mind wonders to the "what ifs". So better keep myself busy abit... but also maybe come back and be a piggy.

DQ - Thanks.

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